Veil dan Tudung Nikah

This is supposed to be one of those sweet moments where you and your significant others won't forget. And, since bad memories aren't the type that you can forget easily, you'll try your best to reduce them. Semestinya, you don't want any of your wedding moments to fall into that category. Nak nampak cantik!! Sume nak nampak cantik waktu kawen. Time2 lain muke macam tak siap takper tapi waktu kawen, kener cantik. Hahaha..


So, ape lagi, mestilaa terus survey camanerlaa nak pakai tudung waktu nikah. Ade gak pakai awning tapi rasanyer I tak sesuai pakai awning. Even, encik botak pun cakap camtuh. (Yer, saya tau!!!)


So, kener cari idea lain untuk pakai.tudung. Pastu, kalau dah namanyer kawen, kener laa ade veil skali.


1. Anak tudung syria. Okla jugak ni kalau letak lace border siket kat tudung syria tu. Saya ingat nak pakai anak tudung warna emas (sebab baju saya kaler ivory/ off-white). So, mungkin ade element emas2 siket. Lagipun muke gelap. Lagilaa gelap muke ku kalau ade warna putih2.

Gorgeous giler kan

2 Beli tudung awning kosong, pastu letak veil tu atas tudung. Tgk orang bawah ni cantik tapi I don't think I'll look that gorgeous

OMG! Cantiknyer lace tudung blogger kat atas ni!! Jelesnyer


Anyway, I want to pakai veil dengan lace tu terus kat inner. Meaning, pakai inner kosong, pastu pinkan lace border tu terus kat inner. Kalau pakai tudung chiffon, pastu letak veil tu directly kat atas tudung,


Ini pun cantik gak, but I tak sesuai pakai tudung camni

Ha! This is how I want to look like mase nikah and sanding nanti!!! Cantik kan? Takyah susah2 beli tudung awning. pakai tudung sifon biasa. Then letak hias dengan veil lace tu sendiri. Meaning, lekatkan veil tu terus kat tudung.

Ini pun lebey kurang macam idea letak veil terus kat dahi / atas tudung kosong. Cantikan?


Yes!! I rasa i nk buat camni. OK, fokus pada veil yang cantik skarang!




Ini sume link2 B2B yang DIY veil sendiri, gorgeous giler kan??


Gorgeous DIY Veil


Alamak, tak jumpelak yang lain, nanti saya update kay!

Selalu kener marah!

saya ni slalu kener marah.


dengan sape?


dengan tunang saya lah.


nak tau muke dia camner???


comel siket budak kecik ni :)

So skang, saya bertindak untuk bercakap perkara yang buat saya happy sahaja! Walaupun, perkara tak happy tu melibatkan pasal majlis kawen saya.


For now, tahap happy pasal majlis kawen 50%.

Our Solemnization Detail Checklist (Updated as at 25/12/2010)

Hantaran for Him:
1) Cincin  - (February purchase!) 
2) Jam - done
3) Jersey MU - done
4) Perfume Set - done
5) Wallet & Belt - done
6) Sejadah and Quran - (dah survey tapi tunggu untuk February purchase)
7) Sirih Junjung - (belum survey lagi tp untuk February purchase)
8) Buah (mungkin Apple?)
9) Cake / Coklat - (Patchi untuk February purchase)


Hantaran for Her:
1) Cincin (belum beli lagi) and Mas Kahwin
2) Perfume Set - done
3) Handbag (still survey but this is for February purchase)
4) Make up set - done

5) Quran (belum beli lagi)
6) Sirih Junjung and Bunga Rampai
7) Coklat / Kek


Makan:

Bihun goreng, Kuih (Morning snacks) - Masak sendiri?

PA System / Entertainment:
None kot!

Catering:
Masak sendiri ? - TBD

Tok Kadi:
Imam Jurunikah Masjid Saidina Umar Al - Khattab

Decorations and Gubahan Hantaran: 

Maybe will get my aunties lovely touches!

Borang2 permohonan berkahwin:
Dah ambil, tapi belum isi.

Photographer and Videographer: 
Atynn

Kad Jemputan: 
LH Creative - Done

Make Up Artist: 
Kak La Herbapaty - (RM300 inclusive Sanding makeup + SPA+ Henna)

Baju Nikah:
Tailor D-Renjis

Venue: 
Rumah

Henna:
Kak La Herbapaty

Pulut Kuning / Nasi Kunyit & Rendang
TBD

Hand Bouquet
DIY

Reception Checklist

Our Wedding Reception Detail Checklist (Updated as at 25/12/2010 -- Christmas yey!)


Venue:
My house @ Besut, Terengganu


Catering:
TBD   (budget: RM10 per pax for 400)
(Termasuk Kerusi, Meja, Alas Meja / Skirting, Balut Kerusi, Meja Pengantin, 3 Buffet Corner)


Make Up Artist:
Kak La (RM300 including Akad Nikah makeup + SPA)


Photographer:
Atynn


Baju Reception:
Baju: TBD (dah book kat Drenjis tapi rasa macam nak tukar baju, boleh tak?)
Kasut: TBD
Tudung: TBD
Veil: tBD


Bunga Pahar:
TBD


Pelamin and Deco:
TBD (I hope I can get Shazswedding)


Emcee:
Most probably, my cousin but this is still in discussion


Performance:
None


Kompang:
TBD


Invitation Card:
LH Creative (done! RM350)


VIP Door Gift:
TBD


Door Gift:
Yassin; Mathurat, Sweets from Japan, Air, Non-woven bag


Bunga Manggar:
TBD


Corsage:
TBD


Wedding Cake (Fondant):
TBD(Kener ke ade kek ek?)


Hand Bouquet:
TBD (Hopefully I can just buy fresh flowers and DIY)

Foto By Razali : Wedding Photography Giveaway contest

Mesti ramai yang berminat lepas tengok poster biru dengan font kuning putih yang comel ni. Its basically a contest by Mohd Razali, a professional wedding photographer who has decided to give away a free wedding photography package to anyone!! Yes dear, anyone! But, with a condition, you need to fulfill some of his requirements. More info, you can view here:.Mohd Razali Wedding Photography Giveaway


So, which one did i choose?

Foto By Razali – http://blog.mohdrazali.com

Getting both  nature and humans to work together takes more than a 'click'. Its about the time when you click and  the perfect angle to capture the combination which surely does sound like a lot of work compared to the word 'click' itself.


I like the way he capture the moments. They were quite real (which is what we are looking in all the pictures). All the expressions are there; happy, sad, in love. The color texture (sorry laa Encik Razali, i memang tiada knowledge dalam photography area punyer jargons) was really soft and enticing. When I said enticing, it looks extremely pleasant to my eyes and i feel the urge to continue browsing your blog.


Like this picture, i still wonder macam maner tak terpercik air tu kat lens kamera dia?  The color of the air pun cantik sangat. Blue - turquoise. Cantik... Macam kaler laut dalam.I just hope the couple tu dekat siket. So i can see the splashes of water dekat kaki and baju the bride.Satu lagi, I like the bayang2 couple tu dekat air. Cantik. Even the buih2 ombak pun nice! :)

Whenever we took any picture, and we found out that someone eyes were closed, most of us would be snapping another picture because to us, its a failure. You would have thought the same hypothesis applied here. You got it wrong! (Even me the first time). My fiance was the one who pointed out what a great moment was this. With the bride closing her eyes, she's enjoying the moments of getting a kiss by her husband with a mixed feelings of respect and 'malu2 kucing'. Both of them must have rush of emotions going through their minds. If I'm the bride, most  likely I wont be able to hold my tears of happiness for the year to come whenever I look back at this picture.


Yes, there's one more that I love!!

Another perfect combination of human and nature. Everything is perfect...moment, couple and talented protographer. And if an ant was given a chance to use dslr, i'm pretty sure the ant will say (in its squeky voice)


              "cantik gambar ni" (honest answer from a tiny, weeny ant who speak Malay)


All your pictures are saturated with vivid colors (your signature I assume) and formally composed. I like how you snap the pictures not just a photojournalist but also producing the elobarately produce image from bridal magazine. Giving the brides the kind of pictures that she might have saw in the bridal magazine.



Furthermore, since i'm living somewhere in Terengganu with the nearest beach is just 15 minutes away from my house (pulau perhentian is 1 hr away), I was hoping that he could come and become my OP for the day! Maybe then, he could take the picture almost like this for me. I like all the pictures that he took at the beach. Cantik! Most of your pictures seem to revolve around nature and I hope you can do the same for me in Terengganu.


My nikah is going to be held at night. So, its very crucial i got someone who can capture the moment and I believe I've found him! (Encik Razali, i hope you know its you :) )


Then, my house is rumah kayu lama. So, I want him to capture that as well. The keping2 kayu, bumbung rumah tu....cantik for professionals who know how to appreciate that kind of details. 


And of course, I want him to nail the pictures of my family and relatives. I like another picture when the bride's dad shows the check to another guy (possible his brothers). Sangat touching that moment. I'm pretty sure there are tons of thoughts going through his mind when he look at the check. And I want to have that! I want to be part of everything that's going on at my wedding. I want to feel the happiness, tiredness, sadness. Those are priceless as it means a lot (more than the dowry)


There, you have it Encik Razali; all the reason why I want you to take my wedding pictures.

I'm so blessed...

Ramai yang mungkin tak tahu sebenarnya orang yang mula2 skali nampak keikhlasan dan kebaikan encik botak saya ni ialah arwah mak saya. Eventhough she was sick (with schizophrenia), but Allah had given her the ability to see the goodness in my fiance.

Back then, I never really knew him. Tapi, my mom insisted that this is the right man for me. I remember how frustated I was that my mom didn't know me well enough and didn't want to listen to my heart. Yet, in the end, she knows me best.

There were a few incidents that happen before I met Mr. Botak that makes me feel frustated with how things were between us. Alhamdulillah, bila I baca the notes below, I began to realize ...

The Grand Master Plan that Allah has chartered for us was unbelieveble. Itula tanda Allah sayang kat kita...

I remembered reading the post below somewhere...

Memang sakit bila cinta yg kita dambakan selama ini tak dihargai oleh insan yg bernama kekasih,apatah lagi kita dibuang begitu saja... tapi,itulah juga petanda terbaik untuk diri dan kehidupan kita pada masa akan datang
1. memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita dengan orang yg salah supaya apabila kita bertemu jodoh yg sebenar,masih ada rasa syukur kita pada ketentuanNYA.

2. memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita dengan orang yg salah supaya kita dapat menjadi penilai yg baik.

3. memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita dengan orang yg salah supaya kita sedar bahawa kita hanyalah makhluk yg sentiasa mengharapkan pertolongan ALLAH.

4. memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita dengan orang yg salah supaya kita dapat KASIH SAYANG YANG TERBAIK,KHAS UNTUK DIRI KITA.

5. memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita dengan orang yg salah supaya kita sedar bahawa ALLAH MAHA PEMURAH & PENYAYANG kerana mengingatkan kita bahawa dia bukanlah pilihan yg hebat untuk kita dan kehidupan kita pada masa depan...

6. memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita dengan orang yg salah supaya kita dapat mengutip pengalaman yg tak semua orang berpeluang untuk mengalaminya.

7. memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita dengan orang yg salah supaya kita jadi MANUSIA YG HEBAT JIWANYA.

8. memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita dengan orang yg salah supaya kita lebih faham bahawa CINTA YG TERBAIK HANYA ADA BERSAMA ALLAH.

9. memang ALLAH sengaja menemukan kita dengan orang yg salah supaya kita LEBIH MENGENALI KEHIDUPAN YG TAK SELAMANYA KEKALWahai sahabat yg kecewa,menderita dan sengsara kerana cinta, fahamilah bahawa kehidupan kita makin sampai ke penghujungnya


Hari esok pun kita sendiri tak pasti samada menjadi milik kita. Gapailah keredhaan ALLAH dengan melaksanakan suruhanNYA, dan meninggalkan laranganNYA


PERCAYALAH sesungguhnya ALLAH malu untuk menolak permintaan hambaNYA yg menadah tangan meminta dengan penuh pengharapan HANYA kepadaNYA.


I love my fiance so much... and I love you, Ma! 

Shopping!

Anyway, everytime I tgk my buku ASB, rasa nak nangis. Takper, Insya Allah after this I will top up like crazy. Now, updates untuk my shopping..

HANTARAN FOR HIM

• 1.Jam Tangan  Dah lame settle!
• 2. Kasut - tak jadi.. ganti ngan  Bunga Rampai!
• 3. Baju & Seluar  Bagi Jersey MU :) He loike!!
• 4. Wallet & Belt    Beli kat Sogo! Settle!
• 5. Toiletries/ Perfume Set Both of us like the Dunhill Blue smell! Ahh.. Settle!
• 6. Al- Quran (ini dalam to buy list this weekend)
• 7. Cincin Suasa (beli bulan January 2010)
• 8. Chocolate/ Cake (Tak usha lagi.. Maybe next year!)
• 9. Sireh (Idea dah ade.. :) )

HANTARAN FOR HER

• 1. Wang Hantaran --:)
• 2. Handbag   I decided not to have shoes sebab nanti got Al-quran atas tray jugak. Untuk menjaga hati the elders... Nak guner voucher laa :)
• 3. Perfume Set - Done :)
• 4. Makeup Set - I like this very very much!!  Done
• 5. Al-Quran - (ini dalam to buy list this weekend)
• 6. Chocolate/ Cake - my Fiance punyer part!
• 7. Sireh - my Fiance punyer part!

I have yet to figure out how i'm going to do the hantarans. Maybe I could use plates (yang akan diguna pakai nanti) or just go ahead with the bantal? Tgk dulu...

Ok, itu untuk hantaran! :) Next post is about the rest of my preparation ya!

Kulit awak nampak makin cerahlaa...

Mesti ade orang cakap i ni gediks dan perasan (orang tu i dah tau dah sape... sile sembam muke atas bantal). Tapi ini bukan i yang cakap ok? Ade orang lain yang cakap camni. Okeh, meh kita ulang tayang siket ape yang dia cakap..

Di depan kaunter gerai makan di Makan Place...

I tgh sebok2 nak bayar makanan with my 2 other friend. 

"Eh, nak beli kuih tak?"

"Nak2... jap ek"

"Eh, muke yati dah putih siket laaa "

"Haa... tadelaa" (Kaver2 malu dengan harapan pujian tu making panjang.. taktik biasa I)

Pastu tak sempat lagi nak sambung sebab dok cari duit dalam wallet yang dah semakin nipis (Cam makin susah lak nak cari duit sebab duit tu pandai2 je sembunyi diri dier)

Pikir gak what did I do to deserve such atonement? Pastu baru buat2 teringat that I have been using the SK II sample set for almost a month and I do noticed that my skin memang quite smooth sket. Still tak sampai level cam baby butt tapi cam toddler's butt leh laa dikira akal. Jerawat pun dah tak naik sangat. Walaupun muke I takkan jadi tahap macam Lisa Surihani, tapi asalkan dapat kulit muke yang smooth dan comel, that's good enough!

I asked my fiance the other day about hantaran untuk facial set

"Eh, untuk facial set, takyah kali laa.. nanti tak guner tau. Sayang pakai SKII sample skang, malu laa nak letak SK II as hantaran"

"Nape? "

"Mahal laa set SK II tuh, ribu2 tau"

"Sample dier bape ringgit"

"Murah je" Memang murah tau, RM99 je sample set dia tapi banyak yang dah discontinued 

"Haa, takperlaa... Gunerjelaa sample tu sampai bile bile"

Dalam hati.. boleh lak I jadi gadis sample SK II.

Ladies Coach

Today's mark the first day I embark on the "ladies coach". I haven't step foot on komuter for almost a year. Why should I when I can drive to work and back home whenever I want? Its the luxury of getting some space between you and another stranger is the excuse I've been using to my fiance why I wanted to drive all this years (Apart of the idea of having to stand up the whole journey which is not something that I fond of). Don't even get me started with the 'smell'...


However, a year later, I had to go back to my old routine due to a couple of reason. The main reason??


1. Increase in Midvalley car park rates. Instead of paying the already high priced parking rates cap at RM6, we are now doomed with the 'No maximum charge' clause that they put here. Meaning, we all could be paying for RM 9 or 10 (that's the usual daily rates). 

Tambah tolak sume, weekly I'm paying around RM50(gas) + RM20 (toll) + RM45 (parking) = RM115/week. Which means, I'm going to be paying ~RM460 per month untuk transportation sahaja. Isk.. That amount of money could be use for buying my hantaran tau!

Kalau I naik komuter (please refer to image above)
one way ticket from Bangi to Midvalley is RM 3.7 * 40 rides = RM148 (kurang dalam RM310) ... Banyak tau boleh save.


And yes, back to our post title, we now have the Ladies Coach. Yay, now no need to worry about smelly or pervert guys! I feel so safe now.. Well, at least even if i have to stand, I don't mind. 

Checklist

I got tons of checklist everyday. Everyday, i always end up with new checklist for everything. Just name it. Movies that I need to watch. Grocery list. What should I do the first thing in the morning to stay young :). How to get more money. Ahh... skills that I need to get in order to get a better job with better pay. Things I need to do before I die.

Our life consist of checklist everyday. Its one way to preserve the so called sanity. Staying sane is important for me, especially.